This Proverbs mini-series is focused on developing a biblical anthropology of “the heart.” In the first three weeks, we will ask: What is the heart? How is it shaped? And how does it become wise? In the second three weeks, we will deal with common heart problems.

OPENING DISCUSSION
Would you consider yourself someone who is generally slow to anger, or do you tend to have a hasty temper? Why do you think that is?

BIG IDEA
According to Proverbs, wise people are not ruled by their anger, but understand how to control their anger and entrust their strong emotions to God.

Read Proverbs 14:29
This Proverb connects a slow temper with “understanding” and a quick temper with “foolishness.”

• When we lose our temper, what are some of the foolish things we are “believing” in that moment? About God? About ourselves? And about the person with whom we are angry?
• What do you think the person who is slow to anger “understands” that frees them from the grip of anger?

Read Romans 5:6-11
In this passage, Paul highlights one of the most counterintuitive glories of the gospel, namely, that though we were God's enemies, he did not consume us in anger and judgment but instead sent his Son in love to save us.

• When we are tempted to unrighteous expressions of anger, how does this passage reframe our beliefs about God, ourselves, and other people?
• And how do you think that should affect our anger?

Read Romans 12:14-20
In this passage, though Paul never explicitly uses the word anger, he definitely deals with the theme of anger, especially as it relates to the temptation to seek revenge.

• In verse 19, what truth does Paul remind us of that frees us from the need for angry vengeance?
• How does this truth not only free us from the need for vengeance but also free us to love our enemies?

What is one step you can take today to grow in this area? As a group, spend time in confession and prayer for God’s help and grace.